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Spic and SPAM!

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When I first started my blog, I was too liberal in posting it on friends’ Facebook walls.  Don’t hate me too much, I was just excited! 🙂  And don’t worry either; I’m smarter than that now.  Still, internet spam is a problem that annoys pretty much everyone at some point or another.  And when it comes to my own mistakes, I always take blame when necessary.  So beef it up and watch my sincere and meaty apology!  You won’t wanna miss it:

(and you know that fork ain’t for nothin…)

Hope ya’ll enjoyed that.  Because it wasn’t my favorite thing in the world.  So sorry again for spamming.  But now:

 “Everything has changed!”

~Taylor Swift/ Ed Sheeran


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I have responsibilities…

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but only because I choose to have responsibilities.

I believe in accepting legitimate criticism and also in getting out of my comfort zone, but if anyone ever tries to force or pressure me into anything in a manner or form with which I am not comfortable in any way at all…



figuratively AND literally…

 But as is always the case, I am kind and civil about this.  Ain’t no James Dean, “rebel without a cause” thing going on here.  This is NOT me being selfish or evading (legitimate) responsibility in any way at all.

  I desire to work hard and stretch myself to serve others.

Still though.  The number 1 person on my list is ME!

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and for that I will NEVER apologize…



1) What responsibilities do you choose to have?

2) What is your LINE OF PROPRIETY when it comes to responsibility?

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“I don’t answer to ANYBODY.  And it’s a lovely, LOVELY feeling…”

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~John Mayer

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Accepting (legitimate) apologies

is just as much of an important people-skill as is accepting (legitimate) criticism.

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  And forgiving someone/accepting their apology does NOT mean

you are condoning their behavior/sin as acceptable…







“I’m sorry for blaming you..and I HURT MYSELF by hurting you…”

Once again, I am saying A LOT here without using a lot of words.

Go “search, ponder, and pray” about these ideas.

Not EVERY apology is necessarily warranted though!

(line of propriety…)


Like you probably WON’T (or shouldn’t!) accept my apology

for this crazy hairdo/ pose/ picture…


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I want to read other peoples’ blogs (and I am a little and will do more so soon)…

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but for right now, I’M TOO BUSY WRITING MY OWN!


Eternal struggle between reading and writing.  Another good problem to have, I’d say 🙂

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To my dear followers….

I’m sorry that I’m flooding your inbox.  I know you get an email every time I post, and at this point, I am writing between 15-30 new posts per day.  I think it will slow down eventually, but if you continue to follow me (and please do!!!), know that there will always be notifications.  🙂

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Hierarchy of Digital Communication

There is a hierarchy of what is generally considered appropriate in the levels of communication.  I don’t mind giving my email out to most people.  Then if people know your full name they can find you on Facebook, and depending on how comfortable you are, you can choose to accept their friend request or not.  I along with many others won’t give my phone number out freely.  And address?  No way, Jose!  But yes, email I am quite comfortable with.

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But here’s the funny thing:  IT’S EASIER TO REACH ME VIA EMAIL THAN PHONE!  Actually, scratch that, text and email are probably about equal.  Rest assured, I DO pick up the phone, listen to my messages, call people back (employers, I’m talking to you!)  And generally, I do a pretty good job of keeping in touch with people, getting back to them, etc.  I just find it interesting that “phone” kinda seems to be the VIP form of communication, but this girl ain’t that into it…

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an apology to Therapist “Zach”……kinda :)

*names have been changed to protect the innocent therapist


I’m sure it’s really hard for you Zach (don’t tempt me, Michael Scott).  I’m sure you wanna show my blog to all your friends and be like:  I helped her get there!  But those dang confidentiality laws/professional boundaries.   Haha….I’m sorry for the torture.  But I also think you probz REALLY enjoy reading this blog, dontcha?  maybe not but maybe…

#catch ya on the flip side 🙂

#cant answer me…

oh and by the way this isn’t the first time I’ve communicated via code:

communicate code...

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When beauty meets humor, vanity disappears….


I felt a bit of anxiety that beauty was so important to me that I classified it as a core belief.  But that’s gone now that I’ve discovered and articulated this exciting truth.  So I’m not gonna feel bad about dishing out $40 (from time to time) to get eyelash extensions…I used to feel like one of those dumb women in the scriptures (Isaiah?) who get cursed for their vanity…no more.  I like being beautiful (within reason) and I ain’t gonna apologize ’bout that…


Core beliefs:  Umm, lil obvious I think 🙂


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