If you have (figurative!) beef with someone, talk about it with him/her directly, not with other people.
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[Wo]Man up if necessary, then take your grievances to the original source.
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“And if thy brother or sister offend thee, thou shalt take him or her between him or her and thee alone…”
-Doctrine & Covenants 42:88
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SAY WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY!
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getting off soapbox now 🙂
“Choose not to insult others or put them down, even in joking.
Avoid gossip of any kind.”
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PS: I deeply dislike “Mean Girls,” Read here for why.